Why is it important to surprise your boyfriend?
There are some relationships which always stay fresh, and the couple always
seem as into each other as they were when they first got together. Ever
wondered how these sorts of couples do it? It’s easy! These couples make an
effort to keep the spice going in their relationships by always thinking
outside of the box and adding splashed of spontaneity here and there – a last
minute trip to the seaside at the weekend, or a surprise bubble-bath in the
evening after work!
It is these
little things, which maintain the intimate connection between them because they
both know that they are thinking about each other.
Doing new things together and sharing experiences also makes them feel
exactly like they did when they first started dating – giddy, excited,
anticipating fun-times – all because they don’t know what to expect from their
mini adventures.
How to keep the fire alive in your
own relationship
There are many ways you can keep
the fire burning in your relationship, and it doesn’t all have to revolve
around the bedroom. Sometimes doing the ordinary and mundane things in life,
but adding an injection of fun and unpredictability in with the familiar can
make you both feel good and bring you closer together. So we have come up with
5 creative ways in which you can surprise your boyfriend and strengthen your
bond…
1.
Initiate a food
fight
Okay, so it might seem a little bit
juvenile, and there’s no guarantee he will find it amusing, some people are too
stuffy to appreciate a messy bit of rough and tumble, but if you’ve got a
laid-back boyfriend, and you’re both at home in your slacks, then why not eye
him across the kitchen table with a cheeky glint in you eye and tease him by
bending back your ice-cream loaded spoon? He will probably give you a look
of warning that says don’t you dare, that’s when you should lob it at him
and dive for cover!
It’s going to be the last thing on
earth he is expecting, and it is certainly a creative way to surprise him, have
a good laugh, get a little bit messy and have a shower together afterwards.
2.
Warm his T-shirt
on the radiator for him
Do something small and
unpredictable to show your boyfriend that you care, like pop his T-shirt on the
radiator on a cold winter morning before he gets up to get dressed. If you
don’t mention it to him, and then let him discover it, he will instantly fall
in love with you that little bit more! Everyone appreciates finding out they
have a partner who is thinking about them first thing in the morning. It’s
soppy, but true.
3. Three sneaky little ways to show you’re always up for a bit of mischief
A guy will think he has died and gone to heaven once he discovers his
girlfriend is a cheeky little minx. It’s every guy’s dream. Try one of these
ideas to express the cheeky side of your personality…
·
When you are out together on a daytrip,
towards the end of the day when you are heading back home, tell your boyfriend
that you’ve been walking around all day with no knickers on! He won’t be able
to wait to get you back, and the train journey home should be interesting!
·
Pinch his bum when he is least expecting
it – Most effective when done in a public place with a poker face on. Ignore
his reaction and then when he is least expecting it, do it again, this time
with a sexy glint in your eye!
·
Tell him your cooking dinner in five
minutes and to meet you in the kitchen. Then turn up wearing nothing but
a frilly apron!
4. Secretly book a hotel room for the night
It doesn’t have to be a special occasion to spend a night in a swanky
hotel!
Don’t tell
him about the booking though, instead go for a relaxing stroll together, and
then as you are passing the hotel mention that they have a wonderful roof
terrace bar, and that you’d love to check it out! If you checked in earlier
then you should already have the key to the room in your pocket, so while he
thinks you’re both heading up to the roof, really you’ll be heading to your
suite!
Surprises
like this that are pre-planned and totally out of the ordinary will blow his
mind!
Make sure
you pack a couple of toothbrushes and a change of clothes for the morning,
especially if either of you are going to work, and drop them off to the room
beforehand.
5.
Random gifts are
always a great surprise…
Get the best
effect by popping his favourite bar of chocolate in his pocket without him know
so that he finds it later just when he is starting to feel a bit peckish. Or
write him a sexy love letter and slip it into his briefcase with a spray of
your perfume. You could buy him a new aftershave and leave it in the bathroom
cabinet for him to discover, or really go to town and create a treasure map
marking all the places you have hidden his surprise random gifts with an X!
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